Our Grandchildren’s Other Grandfather His scuffed Stetsons sit by his stirrups and saddle in the shop. His cowboy hat hangs with his fringed jacket on the rack in the hall. Shriveled to a sliver of himself, he lies in the hospice bed in the same room in the farmhouse where he was born. The dead - his wife and two sons- watch from photographs as friends and family file in. He opens milky eyes and smiles as he stares into the wide blue pupils – identical to his as a boy -. of his and our infant great granddaughter as her mother, his and our granddaughter, kisses his leathery cheek and our daughter, who sees him as a second father, pats his gnarly hand. Our and his other grandchildren sponge his parched lips while the nurse administers morphine. When he takes his last breath three months from his 80th birthday the wind howls through the pasture.